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Petri Dishin’ It
Spillin' the fertli-tea.
This is where the real IVF stories live — the kind that don’t fit neatly on a clinic brochure. From high-quality embryos to high-stakes emotions, I’m dishing it all: the grief, the hope, the hormones, and the hilariously unhinged in-between.
No sugar-coating. No toxic positivity. Just Petri dish realness.


IVF Cost, Live Birth, and the Truth About the Fertility Journey
IVF cost is not just “one cycle.” It is a full episode of care with meds, monitoring, add-ons, storage, and surprise fees. This post breaks down real numbers, why drop-off happens, and what support exists so you can plan with your eyes open.
Feb 196 min read


Infertility Is My Scarlet Letter (And I Carry It Everywhere)
Infertility doesn’t mark your body in red thread, but it leaves a mark all the same. This reflection draws parallels between The Scarlet Letter and modern infertility, examining shame, identity, and what it means to carry something deeply personal in silence.
Jan 183 min read


The IVF Trauma Files: When Trying Turned Into Treatment
No one tells you IVF trauma can start before IVF ever begins. Mine did—with a “simple” test that landed me in the hospital and left me without both fallopian tubes. I was 34, excited, hopeful, and completely unprepared for how quickly “trying” would turn into survival.
Oct 24, 20253 min read


Fertility Terms That Need a Damn Rebrand (Like, Yesterday)
Confused by fertility jargon? You’re not alone. IVF, IUI, FET, AMH—it can feel like decoding a foreign language while emotionally spiraling. This post breaks down the most common fertility and infertility terms in real people language—minus the medical mumbo-jumbo and emotional whiplash. Because understanding your body shouldn’t require a PhD, a therapist, and Google Translate.
Oct 5, 20255 min read


IVF Relationships: How Infertility Impacts Marriage and What’s Helped Us Cope
Infertility impacts more than your body—it affects your marriage, too. In this post, I share how IVF has challenged our relationship and what has helped us reconnect, along with resources and practical tips for couples facing the same struggles.
Sep 1, 20254 min read


Fertility Rituals Then & Now: From WTF Remedies to Modern IVF Hope
Humans have always turned to rituals for fertility—from bizarre history hacks to today’s IVF lucky socks. Here’s what’s changed, what hasn’t, and why it matters.
Aug 18, 20253 min read


IVF Facts - Then and Now: What We Know, What We Don’t, and Why It Still Hurts Sometimes
A failed embryo taught me what IVF facts don’t explain. This post explores how far we’ve come, what still hurts, and where science is headed.
Jul 23, 20253 min read
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